Not everyone who has a cheating wife wants to end the marriage. Unfortunately, not every cheating wife wants to save her marriage. Is there a way to make your cheating wife stop – even if she isn't sure she wants to? There are times when you can save your marriage even though your cheating wife isn't sure she's ready to end the affair.
Here are a few things you need to keep in mind if you really want to make that happen though.
1) Never issue ultimatums.As tempting as it may be, this is not the time to start throwing your weight around. At least not until you know she's made her choice and that choice is you. Seriously, the decision to stay must be hers and hers alone. You can encourage but you cannot demand if you want a good outcome.
2) Try to empathize with your wife's position.It's not always easy to put yourself in someone else's shoes but this is a time when you want to look at your marriage through her eyes. When you show your wife that you are seeing things from her point of view she'll see you in a new light and be more willing to give you and your marriage a second chance.
3) Take the first step in the right direction.Yes, sometimes it's really best to be the one to make the first move. This is one of those times. You want to extend the olive branch and offer the apology. Yes, it was wrong of her to cheat. But, if you are the one who wants to save this marriage and she's still sitting on the fence, you are going to need to be the one who starts the process of compromising.
4) Set out to win her heart all over again.You won her heart once before and you can win it again if you are committed to the cause. Be the romantic fool you were when you dated the first time around. Make her fall in love with you a second time and make it your mission in life to make her fall in love with you all over again every single day from this day forward.
5) Make the other man a distant memory.The best way, by far, to make your cheating wife stop is to make sure that the other man pales by comparison to you. Be the man you were when the two of you fell in love and continue working to woo your wife. It will pay off well for you in the end.