Before a separation incurs, I should make a note that it's usually much easier to halt the divorce proceedings if these methods are put to use prior to a legal separation.
As a relationship and marriage counselor, I have seen a great many people come through my door and try to patch things up because both parties were interested in resolving their differences at least amicably. They were still in love with one another, but realized they both needed help if they were to continue their relationship.
In a situation with a man who wants to get a wife back after they have split up due to her refusal to work on the marriage, or simply not interested in working on it... there is some powerful psychological methods that can be used. These methods are some of our most primal and basic human instincts that anyone can use to get back a wife.
Most failed marriages that I could not help had resulted in the dissolution of the marriage simply because neither party was willing to save the relationship nor willing to work on it. A man that wants to get back wife is eager to try anything. If you walk away with utter refusal to work at it, then you will never get back your wife.
So what can you do?
Women have statistically answered the core reason for a marriage failing to be they were not appreciated. And men want to be adored. Typically if you're trying to get back a wife, you want to keep in mind that most women are attracted to a man that is powerful, strong, and capable of protecting them.
The same type of woman is usually going to be turned off and push away a man that "appears" weak, pleading, crying, stalking, and otherwise... a total wreck. By maintaining your "appearance" of a strong and confident man, you can get back your wife.
The great revealing secret about why lovers leave has almost everyone confused. But I reveal that secret right here, and encourage you to read both sections about men AND women even if you only want to get back your wife and think it doesn't apply. Women that are reading this article too? There's help for you as well about why men leave the women they love as well.