If you want to get your wife back, you have to act fast. But how? First, if you are in that situation, you should know that something has gone wrong. You may do something that you shouldn’t have, or maybe she did, or possibly it was a long slow slide with a quick eruption at the bottom, but the fact keeps that currently, your matrimony is broken. What you need to do is how to fix it. Despite of difficulties, there are many things that you can do to keep your marriage.
First, make sure you know exactly what happened. It's easy to say that your wife left because of, say, an affair, but do you know what caused it? Was it boredom, or spite, or something completely other? You'll find that part of trying to win your wife back is making sure that the same problems don't come back to haunt you at the end of the day, so make sure you know what caused the break-up in the first place. Talk to friends and family to see if they can help you, and if you are completely in the dark and you feel as though there is something that isn't adding up, it might be time to meet with a private investigator.
When you are looking into how to contact your ex so that they won't reject you, you'll find that the phone is your friend. Take some time to think about what you want to say; it's a plus if she is willing to take your calls. Make sure that you are not making her feel threatened or hostile, because this is a certain way to make sure that she won't listen to you. Be very clear, don't get angry and just let her know that you want to talk to her. Make sure that she doesn't have a reason to be angry.
Your meeting should be someplace neutral that she will feel safe, so this might mean a friend's house, the house of a family member or a restaurant or cafe. It doesn't need to be fancy; this isn't a date. It just needs to be a place where you can talk clearly and where neither party feels threatened. Ideally it should be as far away from the location of any past angry confrontations as possible.
When you are trying to win your wife back, be blunt and honest. Let them know how you feel, what you want and let them know that if their final answer is no that you will take it graciously. This is important when you are dealing with any relationship you want to get back in to. Similarly, keep in mind the fact that you need to think about how to present yourself. Don't make yourself look pathetic, as this defeats the purpose, and don't let make them feel as though guilt is the only reason to get back together with you!
Getting your wife back is difficult, especially if there have been serious problems, but remember that if you don't try you'll never know!