Cheating on your wife can have some serious ramifications. Are you left wondering "what will make my wife come back after I've cheated?" If so, you are in the same boat the many cheating husbands find themselves in after their wives discover their extramarital activities.
To find out how to get your wife to come back after you've cheated you'll want to keep reading all the way to the end. Don't forget to click on the link and you'll find even more excellent advice on making your marriage work after cheating as well.
But your dilemma at the moment is figuring out what will make your wife come back after you've cheated. Here's what you need to do to get started.
1) Give her a little space. Your wife is going to need a little time to come to terms with what you've done, what it means for your marriage, and how she feels about you and the fact that you've cheated. These are not easy things for her to deal with and may take a little time for her to reason out in her mind. Give her that time and the distance she needs to do so.
2) Apologize. It's a good idea to sit down and apologize in a letter. The letter approach works so much better for many reasons. First it gives you the opportunity to really choose your words carefully. If you write down the wrong thing you can take it back and she'll never know the difference. If you're speaking and say the wrong thing though you can never take those words back once she hears them. Another benefit of putting it in writing though is that you can make sure you're really telling her what's on your heart. Get it all out and let her know how much you NEED and WANT her in your life and how sorry you are that you ever put your marriage and her love for you at risk.
3) Ask for her help. This is one she isn't going to see coming. This means she won't have a defense ready-made against it. Ask her to help you be the better husband she deserves and that you want to be. But, don't ask for her help if you aren't serious about it and aren't going to listen to what she has to say. This is an incredibly POWERFUL tool to win her back but it can be even more powerful for saving your marriage long after you've convinced your wife to come back after you've cheated.